A 65-year-old man suffering from cancer was left stunned when a charity shop in Boston refused him access to their toilets and redirected him to some facilities further away.
Billy Etherington is in recovery after a four hour operation a month ago to try and remove the cancer and he was enjoying his first day venturing out since until the experience at Centrepoint Outreach’s shop.
Billy, who relocated with his wife to near The Fens 11 years ago, has a MacMillan Cancer ID card which states on it “Urgent due to my cancer treatment, I need urgent access to a toilet. Please can you help?” and even after showing this at the shop he was left without a solution.
The shop only has a staff toilet, but due his medical treatment Billy needed access quickly and was disappointed the shop didn’t help out.
Billy’s Macmillan Cancer ID card.
He told Lincolnshire Reporter: “Wednesday was the first day I had ventured out for a month and I was a bit nervous as I knew I needed the toilet quite often.
“We did our shopping round the market in Boston and used a toilet elsewhere first and on the way back to the car I needed again and we were close to the Centrepoint shop.
“I popped over and said to the lady at the till that I needed to use the toilet. She said I can’t as they only have a staff toilet and to use the one at the park. I showed her my card to see if this would help and again she redirected me to the one at the park.
“I was astounded by this and I turned and left saying to her that I hope she never has the problems I’m suffering right now. I couldn’t put it into words how I felt, I was so upset and it knocked my confidence about going out. It was great going round Boston market on a nice day, it had been good until that.”
Billy’s wife Loraine posted on social media about the experience saying she was “disappointed” and it was “not very charitable”.
CEO at Centrepoint in Boston Liz Hopkins apologised about the situation and said that the team will learn from this experience.
She said: “This has never happened before and a volunteer was following normal policy directing to the public toilet in the park.
“In this situation it is different and it is unfortunate he wasn’t directed to use the facility’s at the drop in next door.
“However we will learn from this situation and in future make sure that any one else who does present a similar card indicating they have a medical condition is directed next door. I would like to offer my apologies to the gentleman involved.”
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Residents, visitors, and traders have expressed their disappointment following the cancellation of the beloved Lincoln Christmas Market, on what would have been the inaugural day of this year’s four-day event.
Although the poor weather might have deterred some people, the city’s Bailgate area was notably quiet around 12pm on Thursday, typically the time the event usually opens its doors.
Although Lincoln’s famous Christmas Market is no more this year, and won’t be opening today, there are still alternative festive events happening in Lincoln.
City of Lincoln Council’s decision to cancel the 40-year-old event over safety concerns prompted backlash from people and business but, despite pleas from opposition members, its leaders would not change their stance.
There are, however, still some events in Lincoln to get you in the festive mood this week, including these highlights:
Christmas Market at County Assembly Rooms
The County Assembly Rooms in the Bailgate will still hold its own Christmas Market that it has done for many years.
Manager Gill Hunter said stallholders had already pre-booked and 70% still wanted to do it despite the cancellation of the city’s 40-year-old Christmas Market in uphill Lincoln.
There will be a range of festive stalls, food, drinks and performers when it opens at the following times:
Thursday, December 7 (4pm-9pm)
Friday, December 8 (10am-9pm)
Saturday, December 9 (10am-9pm)
Sunday, December 10 (10am-7pm)
This coincides with the free parking at selected city council car parks in uphill Lincoln on Thursday and Friday. This is available at these car parks: Westgate 1,2,3, St Pauls, Castle Hill, The Lawn, and Langworthgate
The bar at The County Assembly Rooms will be serving hot chocolate, festive sandwiches, alcoholic beverages and more. There will also be a brewery selling bottle ale and roasted hot chestnuts will also be available to buy.
Lincoln Castle Illuminated
Lincoln Castle Illuminated will run from Friday, December 8 until Saturday, December 23.
The Castle grounds will be bejewelled with festive lights and illuminated Christmas features. You can take a drip down Candy Cane Lane and also see the resident Castle dragons Lucy and Norman.
The Castle has retained its popular Illuminated Wall Walk, but the lift is currently out of action so it can only be accessed via the spiral staircase.
You can also board the ‘Mini Polar Express’ and enjoy traditional fairground rides.
In addition, there will be local vendors offering sweet treats and winter warmers, including hot chocolate and mulled wine.
Dog friendly evenings will take place on December 13 and 20.
The full Lincoln Castle Illuminated experience costs £11 for adults, £10 for concessions, £6 for children, and £28 for family tickets. Alternatively, you can choose to visit the grounds only for £3 per head (free for under 5s).
Festive fun at Lincoln Cathedral
Lincoln Cathedral will be hosting an array of festive events this month, including during what would have been the Christmas Market period.
Crafters market in the Cloisters – December 8 and 9 (10.30am-4.30pm)
Nativity Crafts – December 9 (10am-3.30pm)
London Concertante: Christmas at the Movies – December 9 (7.30pm). Ticket prices range from £33.99 to £47.72
‘After Hours’: Walking towards Christmas – December 10 (6.45pm)
Winter Market at Lincoln Museum
Lincoln Museum on Danes Terrace is holding a Winter Market on Saturday, December 9, which has been organised by Shelf Editions.
There will also be workshops to take part in including metal wreath (£45) and felt decoration (£15) making, which can be booked via the museum’s website.
For the younger visitors there is also a free drop-in Calendar wreath craft session with the Elbow Room Collective.
Entry to the market is free from 10am-4pm with the cafe serving a festive menu from 11am-3pm.
Lincoln Ice Trail
Lincoln Ice Trail will run from 10am-8pm on Saturday and Sunday, December 9 and 10.
There will be 20 Lincoln-themed ice sculptures to find – you can pick up a map of the trail from the Visitor Information Centre.
In addition, there will be festive entertainment, as well as live-ice carving demonstrations of the Cathedral.
The Travelling Historical Christmas Market
Although this event is next week, The Travelling Historical Christmas Market offers another festive alternative for people in Lincoln.
The free event will take place at St Mary le Wigford Church on St Mary’s Street between December 14 and 17 at the following times: