Just this weekend, Skegness held its annual carnival, in Boston the annual Dragon Boat race raised thousands for charity, Lincolnshire’s newest food festival took place at Bell’s nursery in Benington, and a host of other villages hosted their summer fetes and festivals. As summer reaches its peak, it’s hard to know which event to go to first.

All these things have one thing in common, whether they’re run commercially or by volunteers: the friendly spirit of Lincolnshire runs through them like a stick of (Skegness) rock.

For me, it’s a great chance to get out and talk to people who wouldn’t normally dream of coming to a public meeting or engaging in the endless, sometimes unfriendly debates on Facebook and Twitter.

So at various events over the summer so far, many constituents have said hello, but the vast majority have taken the view that to talk shop would be to interrupt a family day out.

Kind though that is, there is a part of me that doesn’t mind momentarily escaping my one-year old’s ongoing campaign to smear ice cream into my hair, and I’m conscious that MPs can never really think of themselves as wholly off duty.

Those who do wish to talk at any length have raised issues that almost always include Brexit on some level, but which usually start with local issues such as grass cutting or the NHS. If you read the papers, one might assume that those last two are always negative, but actually that couldn’t be further from the truth.

The thousands of people who receive excellent care at Pilgrim every month want to say how valuable the hospital is, while the state of grass verges or street lights is often a subject that makes people ask themselves hard questions about where public money should be spent.

Many are often surprised by their own choices, with the reaction to changes to street lights often very different to what had been predicted. While this remains an issue that can be refined and improved, I’ve lost count of the number of people who are now keenly aware of the irritations of light pollution – and even often grateful they can now see the stars after midnight.

At Pilgrim, meanwhile, there’s huge affection for the work done by the dedicated staff, and an increasing understanding that none of the answers on the complex issue of further improving our NHS are not easy.

As I’ve also had the chance over the summer to catch up with both the chair and chief executive of the hospital trust, I’ve been keen to emphasise how vital the hospital is to all of us, and I’ve been pleased to hear that it is at the heart of plans for the future.

Articulating the sustainable, inspiring vision for Pilgrim and for rural healthcare as a whole, is of course a key part of the future plans we need locally.

I’m confident that that will happen – and I know from all those conversations with constituents just how vital it is to make it happen.

Matt Warman is the Conservative MP for the Boston and Skegness constituency.

As Parliament prepares for the summer recess, it’s an appropriate time to reflect on a tumultuous last year – the referendum, a new prime minister and a general election has provided a unique reset in the relationship between politicians and the public. What should we take from two vast democratic exercises?

There are obviously more lessons than this short article can cover, but as a starter I’d begin with the simple observation that the United Kingdom, or even solely England, is a more diverse, if not divided, place than any had previously suspected.

Constituencies in London voted just as strongly to remain in the EU as Boston and Skegness voted to leave; the same places voted for Jeremy Corbyn just as strongly as others voted to reject him.

The capital, albeit not many other big cities, can feel to some constituents in Lincolnshire like it is almost another country.

Those of us elected to work in it on behalf of others lose sight of that difference at our peril.

That disconnect also sometimes results in a contempt for politicians that is corrosive for democracy – I don’t mean the disgraceful abuse of parliamentary candidates or the other side in the referendum campaign.

Just as football hooligans had little interest in football, so those issuing death threats to politicians are simply criminals looking for a target.

But there is a growing sense that politicians risk losing sight of the public through lack of contact.

I’ve sought, through public meetings, significant use of social media, frequent surgeries, events such as ‘Pub Politics’ or ‘Chat with Matt’ to meet all sorts of voters and to be genuinely accessible.

In person people are unfailingly polite even in disagreement; online, I expect Lincolnshire Reporter will post this article on Facebook and a few people will think it’s acceptable simply to be obnoxious in the comments underneath in a way they wouldn’t be in person.

In my experience, engaging with people who disagree is an almost universally positive experience, but it has become normal to take a very different approach online.

We will be a better society the faster that changes.

In among those debates of various levels of politeness, there are nonetheless two further observations: the public accept the results of referendums or elections as a reflection of the country and want politicians to simply deal with it as best they can.

In a hung parliament that may be hard, but it is what it is.

I’ve not found a single person who wants a further general election, and many who ask for the stability of decisive government.

That’s just one reason I hope to see Theresa May in Downing Street for as long as she wants to be there.

Finally, politicians seem to be self-serving if they get caught up in leadership shenanigans.

No business owner or manager would put up with endlessly scheming workers.

The public are in many senses the owners of their politicians – they shouldn’t have to put up with it either.

Matt Warman is the Conservative MP for the Boston and Skegness constituency.

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