We have all heard of the ‘glass ceiling’. Anyone who’s ever felt they have the skills to reach new personal heights, but can’t get there, can easily blame an impassable blockade: “I can’t compete with them”, “I don’t have time for that”, “opportunities aren’t available to me”, “I’m not good enough”.
But there’s no ceiling. The ability to do that thing you’ve always wanted to do lies within your hands, and it’s up to you to get yourself off that “sticky floor”. That’s the mantra of The Lincolnite’s latest podcast guest, prominent Lincoln business and marketing professional and public speaker Ruchi Aggarwal.
Listen to the full conversation via the link below.
Ruchi is the Director of Business Development at the University of Lincoln and is a marketing and strategy professional with over two decades of industry experience.
Before moving to Lincoln, Ruchi worked in higher education and technology sectors including Scottish Rugby, Vodafone and was was most recently Director of Partner Strategy and Marketing at Microsoft India.
Ruchi is the Director of Business Development at the University of Lincoln. Photo: Steve Smailes for The Lincolnite
She is an experienced speaker on business and personal development topics as well as on growing talent in women. In 2018, Ruchi was one of a number of inspirational speakers at the TedX Brayford Pool event in Lincoln.
Her inspiring ideas for achievement in all aspects of personal and professional life have gained a following of growth seekers in recent years and have recently kicked off an ambitious book project.
The final design for the Sticky Floor academic book collaboration. The first book will be stories from women and professionals who have found the key to achieving their goals. Photo: Steve Smailes for The Lincolnite
Emily Norton with Ruchi. Photo: Steve Smailes
“Everybody talks about a ‘glass ceiling,” she explained. “People, especially women, sometimes can’t reach their potential because there is a sort of perceived barrier in the way. This blames somebody else for the progression of self.
“Glass ceiling moments to me felt like we were blaming an external source on stopping us from progressing.
Photo: Steve Smailes for The Lincolnite
“Sticky floor’ proposed an opposite look on the glass ceiling. There’s nothing stopping us from progressing externally as much as we are stuck on a sticky floor ourselves.”
The essence of the message is a much more empowering one than the ceiling analogy, and shifts the focus onto something we can control.
Photo: Steve Smailes for The Lincolnite
Ruchi said people often came to speak to her after their talks and were filled with questions about how to progress in their careers, how she did it and if they could replicate it.
Photo: Steve Smailes for The Lincolnite
Photo: Steve Smailes for The Lincolnite
Hearing the stories of others putting the theory into practice in all walks of life will form the basis for her first book. From musicians to corporate professionals and teenagers, Ruchi and academic collaborator Rochelle Haynes are beginning to collect the stories of people around the globe.
The stories will be told digitally too. The pair are in talks with a BBC journalist about turning the project into a series.
Among top tips Ruchi shares with us in our podcast was for listeners to discover and believe in their personal brand and their ability to achieve their goals.
“If you don’t tell your story, it will be the best kept secret.”
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Residents, visitors, and traders have expressed their disappointment following the cancellation of the beloved Lincoln Christmas Market, on what would have been the inaugural day of this year’s four-day event.
Although the poor weather might have deterred some people, the city’s Bailgate area was notably quiet around 12pm on Thursday, typically the time the event usually opens its doors.
Although Lincoln’s famous Christmas Market is no more this year, and won’t be opening today, there are still alternative festive events happening in Lincoln.
City of Lincoln Council’s decision to cancel the 40-year-old event over safety concerns prompted backlash from people and business but, despite pleas from opposition members, its leaders would not change their stance.
There are, however, still some events in Lincoln to get you in the festive mood this week, including these highlights:
Christmas Market at County Assembly Rooms
The County Assembly Rooms in the Bailgate will still hold its own Christmas Market that it has done for many years.
Manager Gill Hunter said stallholders had already pre-booked and 70% still wanted to do it despite the cancellation of the city’s 40-year-old Christmas Market in uphill Lincoln.
There will be a range of festive stalls, food, drinks and performers when it opens at the following times:
Thursday, December 7 (4pm-9pm)
Friday, December 8 (10am-9pm)
Saturday, December 9 (10am-9pm)
Sunday, December 10 (10am-7pm)
This coincides with the free parking at selected city council car parks in uphill Lincoln on Thursday and Friday. This is available at these car parks: Westgate 1,2,3, St Pauls, Castle Hill, The Lawn, and Langworthgate
The bar at The County Assembly Rooms will be serving hot chocolate, festive sandwiches, alcoholic beverages and more. There will also be a brewery selling bottle ale and roasted hot chestnuts will also be available to buy.
Lincoln Castle Illuminated
Lincoln Castle Illuminated will run from Friday, December 8 until Saturday, December 23.
The Castle grounds will be bejewelled with festive lights and illuminated Christmas features. You can take a drip down Candy Cane Lane and also see the resident Castle dragons Lucy and Norman.
The Castle has retained its popular Illuminated Wall Walk, but the lift is currently out of action so it can only be accessed via the spiral staircase.
You can also board the ‘Mini Polar Express’ and enjoy traditional fairground rides.
In addition, there will be local vendors offering sweet treats and winter warmers, including hot chocolate and mulled wine.
Dog friendly evenings will take place on December 13 and 20.
The full Lincoln Castle Illuminated experience costs £11 for adults, £10 for concessions, £6 for children, and £28 for family tickets. Alternatively, you can choose to visit the grounds only for £3 per head (free for under 5s).
Festive fun at Lincoln Cathedral
Lincoln Cathedral will be hosting an array of festive events this month, including during what would have been the Christmas Market period.
Crafters market in the Cloisters – December 8 and 9 (10.30am-4.30pm)
Nativity Crafts – December 9 (10am-3.30pm)
London Concertante: Christmas at the Movies – December 9 (7.30pm). Ticket prices range from £33.99 to £47.72
‘After Hours’: Walking towards Christmas – December 10 (6.45pm)
Winter Market at Lincoln Museum
Lincoln Museum on Danes Terrace is holding a Winter Market on Saturday, December 9, which has been organised by Shelf Editions.
There will also be workshops to take part in including metal wreath (£45) and felt decoration (£15) making, which can be booked via the museum’s website.
For the younger visitors there is also a free drop-in Calendar wreath craft session with the Elbow Room Collective.
Entry to the market is free from 10am-4pm with the cafe serving a festive menu from 11am-3pm.
Lincoln Ice Trail
Lincoln Ice Trail will run from 10am-8pm on Saturday and Sunday, December 9 and 10.
There will be 20 Lincoln-themed ice sculptures to find – you can pick up a map of the trail from the Visitor Information Centre.
In addition, there will be festive entertainment, as well as live-ice carving demonstrations of the Cathedral.
The Travelling Historical Christmas Market
Although this event is next week, The Travelling Historical Christmas Market offers another festive alternative for people in Lincoln.
The free event will take place at St Mary le Wigford Church on St Mary’s Street between December 14 and 17 at the following times: